How to deal with Fights in a Friendship and a Non-Friendship

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Having some friend trouble? Here are a couple tips on how to deal with it!
Everyone gets in fights. Everyone. Its normal to be jealous of your friend or hate them/not like them for a certain reason. Its your feelings. You can feel this way. It isn't against the law! Don't feel ashamed for ever thinking that of your best friend. Its just feelings. It will be over before you know it.

1. Take a Breather.
Take a few deep breaths to calm you down and stop your hands and body from shaking. It will calm you for a little while and if the shakiness and anger comes again later in the day, do another deep breath and relax again.

2. Go for a Walk
Walking is said to help relieve you from stress and anger with your friends. It gives you fresh air so your mind can think about what to do, and it also gives you a chance to be alone and have a refreshing walk. Take a walk by yourself or with your dog if you'd like :)

3. Talk it Out
Talking the situation out is one of the best things that you can do. It will make you and your friend(s) not hold a grudge about the fight anymore because it has been talked out. Grab your parents and your friend's parents. Say "We've been having a fight and we don't know how to fix it." You'll definetely talk it out and you and your friend(s) will become happy again. Your friend(s) can also stay at your house afterwards to talk about school or what is going on in your life.

4. Ignore
Ignore them! Even if they try to talk to you, ignore them. Pretend that they aren't there. If they walk up to you to say something, walk away. If they chase you, then hide in a spot where they won't find you or run away and tell a teacher.

5. Stop, Walk, and Talk
This is another strategy that you can use to talk it out. Just stop, walk, and talk. Stop, walk, and talk means that you stop in the middle of the fight, find the nearest adult, walk to them, then tell them what happened. It is sure to stop after that and that is another way that you can talk the conflict out.

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